How Do You Deal With an Unhealthy Relationship as a Christian? What do you do when someone you love is difficult, emotionally unhealthy, or continually creates chaos—but you've decided you don't want to end the relationship? Maybe it's your spouse. A parent. An adult child. A sibling. As a Christian, you may genuinely want to love this person well while also wondering, “How do I stay in this relationship without losing myself?” The answer begins by recognizing something impor